Sunday, June 28, 2009

Million Can March







Special thanks to my F/friend Dave for the heads up about this...please pass it along...
This all started with a vague notion that we should do something more than just have a good laugh at the next round of tea parties scheduled for July 4th. I thought that if teabaggers are so afraid of socialism, maybe we could show 'em socialism on a national scale. And what is more socialistic than sharing our food with others. Food banks across the nation are struggling with shortages as increasing demands meet head on with decreasing donations. But bloggers also reach across the nation - and the world - and we could make a real difference for our neighbors and make this a memorable 4th of July.

THE CHALLENGE: To collect one million cans of food for our nation's food banks, food pantries and shelters by July 4, 2009.

WHO: Progressive bloggers with a special invite to conservative bloggers.

HOW: Act locally. Here are some examples:

• Take a bag of food to a local pantry
• Organize a food drive where you work or play, your church or motorcycle club, etc.
• Organize some friendly competition amongst a group of blogs
• Challenge your Facebook & Myspace friends and your twitter followers
• There's no one right way to get involved. Look around you, see the need and do something about it.


WHAT: Nonperishable food items. Note: We've already had a cash donation to a relief agency reported (and I know this is a good way for some folks to participate) so if you report your cash donations we'll run a tally of those as well.

SPECIAL CHALLENGE TO OUR CONSERVATIVE READERS: Bring the drinks! Ask your readers to donate cannisters of premixed tea, lemonade, koolaid, etc. You could even set up collection barrels at your next tea party. After all, it wouldn't be a party without the drinks. And it'd probably give you a little better publicity this time...just saying. Now aren't you wishing you thought of this first?

AND THEN WHAT: Blog about it and send us the link. We'll add your amounts to the totals and keep a running tally of the results. And we'll post all your links so folks can see what you did. (Hint, hint: We especially love posts with pictures! Yeah, we're simple like that.) But wait! There's more! If you want more than that warm fuzzy feeling from doing something good, we'll send you the script for an awesome button to adorn your blog to memorialize your participation in the 2009 Million Can March!

Here are some food suggestions:

• If in doubt, call the agency you plan to donate to and ask them what they need.

Here's a basic list:

• cereal, instant oatmeal
• Canned meats & fish (tuna, salmon, deviled ham, canned chicken, etc)
• Peanut butter, jelly, crackers
• fruits and vegetables
• Soups, stews, canned pasta dishes like beefaroni, lasagna, ravioli
• Boxed potatoes and rice and pasta mixes in a box or pouch
• "Just add water" cake, pancake, muffin mixes, etc.
• Canned and powdered milk
• Infant formula and baby foods

You can also think in terms of a meal:

• Spaghetti sauce and pasta
• Tuna and macaroni and cheese
• Beans & Rice

You get the idea, and then add a vegetable, a fruit, and a sweet treat.

Really, this isn't rocket science. Give what you like to eat!

Thursday, June 11, 2009

Positive Anger

I recently had dinner with a friend and one of the topics that we discussed was anger. I said that I like the emotion, the raw heat of the emotion. She disagreed and said that anger was something that needed to be controlled. I've had some time to think about this conversation and to try to make sense of what I really meant by my comment.

Unchecked anger can be a problem. We saw that yesterday when an anti-Semitic man with extreme anger walked into the Holocaust Museum and started shooting. This is not the type of anger I was speaking about...or not the level of anger. I certainly wasn't referring to a pathological level of anger. And at that point, I'm not sure that is controllable anger, not without years of therapy and medication.

Speaking of medication, this is were my thoughts come in. So many people are on anti-depressants. So many people walking around with their feelings kept in check through pills. Sometimes they are blank looking, void of emotion, sometimes not. But often, the meds keep the anger level so low, so controlled. And sometimes people control their own emotions without meds. This is when I say I like the raw heat of anger...mostly when people lose the control and let the emotion out, just for a moment and not to a dangerous level. Anger is real; it is hot and visceral. And sometimes it is good to see that in people who don't often show emotion. It is an opportunity to see past the glossy exterior and to get to the genuine person that is hidden beneath that surface. So it is in that way that I can say I like the raw heat of anger.

When I think about it, anger is what drives change. People getting angry about the status quo of a situation make moves to change the situation. I think it then becomes a choice of what we do with the anger or how we react to it. We have the chance to turn the anger into positive change or to sit and stew in the anger. That raw heat, that fire, that passion has been behind many positive changes. Does anyone really believe that the civil rights movement would have continued, facing a backlash of violence and hatred if it wasn't driven by the anger of injustice?

So I leave you with a totally overused quote that has nearly become a cliche:
"If you aren't angry, then you aren't paying attention." Of course, this has been written many different ways and I can't find the origin in order to give credit, but there is much truth in the statement.

Some people have accused me of being angry, while others think I am passionate...I prefer the latter and I believe it is that passion that makes me the person I am...which is sometimes too intense for others. Oh well.

Sunday, May 31, 2009

Butterflies

Last week I was away at a conference in Chicago. While there I decided to attend Meeting for Worship at the 57th Street Meeting. It was a very welcoming group, a bit smaller than what I am used to. During MfW a first time attender stood and spoke about butterflies. She was a school teacher and her students where watching the change from caterpillar to butterfly. This, of course, is my fairly non-scientific rendition of the process. She spoke about how excited the students would get as the butterfly made its way out of its cocoon. There was one time when she and her students missed the emergence of the new butterflies during lunch but she was reminded that change happens regardless if we are there to witness it. This last statement stayed with me after I left that Meeting and throughout this past week.

Now back home, I was happy to return today to the Meeting where I am a member. I was struck by the messages that were delivered today. Many of the messages revolved around butterflies and change. From a group of students releasing their butterflies and saying goodbye as they flew away, to the question of what those butterflies might have been thinking as they departed...the thread remained throughout MfW today. I was shaken by the continuity of this theme from the Meeting in Chicago to this Meeting at home a full week later.

I've likely mentioned before that I am often astounded by the fact that someone else at Meeting will speak what is in my head and heart. This was kind of like that, except magnified 100 times. No question that there was change...two different Meetings nearly 700 miles apart. But there was also continuity...one week later the same thread. Change happens but maybe it happens in order for things to continue to remain the same, in a sense. We don't necessarily need to see the change to know it has occurred, or maybe we're just not cognizant of the change, even though we know change has taken place. Regardless, we continue to progress in our lives...we go about our daily business and though that may be different, it is is still the same daily routine.

When I was younger I was not good with change...didn't really like change and tried to avoid it. I've come to realize change is constant; I change, the people around me change, the world changes. And every day I wake up, brush my teeth, have my coffee, shower, and work...all the same yet different each day. I've come to accept the changes (mostly) that are a part of the continuity of my life. Yet, I am still shaken and awed by this force/power/presence/spirit that causes this continuity between two Meetings nearly 700 miles and a full week apart.

Friday, May 15, 2009

The Story of Stuff

What is the Story of Stuff?

From its extraction through sale, use and disposal, all the stuff in our lives affects communities at home and abroad, yet most of this is hidden from view. The Story of Stuff is a 20-minute, fast-paced, fact-filled look at the underside of our production and consumption patterns. The Story of Stuff exposes the connections between a huge number of environmental and social issues, and calls us together to create a more sustainable and just world. It'll teach you something, it'll make you laugh, and it just may change the way you look at all the stuff in your life forever.

Click here to watch the film.

Sunday, May 10, 2009

The truth is....

I thought I was sometimes struggling with finding the Light in certain other people. The truth is that I am struggling to find the Light in myself...

Friday, February 20, 2009

Recognizing the Light in others

From Faith & Practice, 2002, Philadelphia Yearly Meeting.

Pg 17...

"Recognizing that God's Light is in every person overcomes our separation and our differences from others and leads to a sympathetic awareness of their need and a sense of responsibility toward them."

Jewish people believe that the Messiah has not yet returned. Most Reform Jews believe in a Messianic era, rather than an "individual", necessarily. Regardless, I was taught that anybody may be the Messiah, could be the Messiah...anybody. The meaning here is similar to the passage from Faith & Practice...the Light is in everyone.

This is where I struggle. I do believe that the Light exists in everyone...my struggle is in finding it or seeing it. Not always, but definitely sometimes. I tend to get angry when someone does something that is hurtful or underhanded. When I get angry I sometimes forget that the Light might possibly exist in that person. Often, my anger turns to hurt and sometimes a heavy heart. It is at that point that I find solace in remembering that the Light is there. It feels to me that as my anger subsides, I can feel the Light within myself and it opens the door for me to look for it in others. I need to allow myself the time to get to the place where I can look for that Light in the other person.

I have a feeling that this is something that I will always struggle with, and maybe that is the way it is supposed to be, at least for me. I guess that there is something to be said about acknowledging that I have not given up on seeking the Light in others. It feels like if I were not go through this process but instead give up the struggle, I would be giving up on humanity and I'm not ready to go there...I hope I'm never ready to go there.

I think I need to give myself the necessary time to go through my process in order to get to that place where I can begin to see, feel, and recognize the Light in others.

Saturday, February 14, 2009

Right Relationship: Building a Whole Earth Economy

From the book,Right Relationship: Building a Whole Earth Economy, by Peter G. Brown & Geoffrey Garver. When they read this paragraph out loud, I was stunned because it was the verbalization of what I profoundly believe to be true. Decide for yourself...

Pg 20...

Study after study has shown that reaching a goal for which we humans have placed our entire planet at risk--economic escalation and personal wealth--does not even make us happy. Above a certain amount needed to maintain a roof over their family and put food on the table each day, human beings in every country surveyed are not made happier by more material goods, even in significant amounts. What does make us happy are the ideals promoted by almost every ethical tradition known: belonging to a community; enjoying good health; sharing; loving and being loved; having access to nature; making a meaningful contribution. When we envision the true limitations, responsibilities, and mystery of living on the earth, we will begin to experience far more fulfilling lives than the excessive acquisition of material possessions can ever provide.